Wednesday, June 12, 2013

June Newsletter: Feminist Abortion Counseling and Abortion Doulas


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Newsletter Features: Feminist Abortion Counseling and Abortion Doulas
The Beautiful Cervix Project www.beautifulcervix.com; Radical Doula radicaldoula.com; Janna Blair Slack goo.gl/LGTGo; AUTONOMOUS COMMUNITIES FOR REPRODUCTIVE & ABORTION SUPPORT (ACRAS) acras.weebly.com; Human Rights in Childbirth www.humanrightsinchildbirth.com; and articles by Carol Downer

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Tuesday, June 11, 2013

FEMINIST ABORTION COUNSELING AND ABORTION DOULAS

By Carol Downer

The current radical doula movement is a breath of fresh air!  It’s bringing the skills of the birth doula to the abortion situation.  Forty years later and millions of abortions later, we still have not broken the shame barrier that keeps us from sharing our abortion experience with our family, or friends or our associates.  The information sharing of an abortion doula and her presence at the woman’s side may be the most powerful way we have to banish that feeling that many women experience even when they get their abortion in a well-equipped, competent clinic that either provides little if any informational and emotional support or goes overboard and “psychologizes” each woman who comes in.

Whether this movement realizes it or not, their revolutionary vision of providing this support to women of all colors and classes has very deep roots.  The women who started over 30 abortion clinics after Roe v. Wade pioneered the non-judgmental, informational counseling.  We took these ideas to the meetings of the National Abortion Federation (NAF); we held workshops, we held symposia.  Most powerfully, we incorporated these concepts into the very warp and woof of our clinics, and although only a handful of women-controlled clinics still survive 40 years of ruthless competition and harassment from anti-choice state agencies, we still provide this every clinic-day to every woman who walks in the door.

"Speculum of Power" by Suzann Gage
First and foremost, women are given straightforward, complete information from the first phone contact by “phone counselors” through the process of filling out forms, getting blood work done, to the procedure itself and the recovery period.  We find that women can be very nervous and “forget” the information; therefore specially trained counselors are there to answer any questions and reassure them.  Additionally, the clinic “traffic flow” is arranged so that women have ample opportunity to chat with each other, and very importantly, to see women walk out to leave who are being released to go home--healthy and able to give a cheerful wave to the woman that’s still in the process.

But, the work of the health worker who’s trained to know good procedure doesn’t end with comforting the woman getting the procedure.  She monitors the doctor, who is a contract worker who gets paid per procedure.  She makes sure he or she is respectful and skilled. We don’t have to worry that the doctor will use a cannula (the tube that suctions out the embryonic material) that is unnecessarily large, because we set up the tray and we only put cannulas out that are appropriate to the length of the gestation.

Abortion clinics keep informal statistics about the rate of women who come in for a post-abortion check-up.  It’s considered that a woman who’s had a positive experience will be most likely to come back in for the check-up.  (Unless she lives far away or has some other barrier).  Our clinics have a high rate of women coming for that check-up.  They also refer to us; they volunteer as escorts; and sometimes they even go on to become health providers themselves and become allies in the community.



Thursday, May 30, 2013

CENSORED at La Leche League Conference

By Carol Downer
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[Note: Carol Downer attended "LA LECHE LEAGUE OF SO. CA/NV Supporting a Breastfeeding Culture, A Parenting & Healthcare Professional Conference”, May 24-26, 2013 at the Marriott Newport Beach (CA) Hotel & Spa]


SUMMARY: We were censored!  Although we had cleared all our materials in advance, we were informed at the last minute that we would not be able to display any literature or items that dealt with birth control or abortion.  I stayed despite these limitations and talked to many wonderful women, and spread the word about Self-Help, our women’s clinics and the Pro-Woman Agenda.  I found new friends and allies, resources and gave away over 20 speculums!


ATTENDEES: Based on the high number of small children at the conference, many in the care of their fathers, I concluded that most of the attendees are breastfeeders, and that they were either LLL “leaders” (they volunteer and facilitate the monthly meetings of breastfeeding moms).  There were also a number of midwives, doulas, lactation consultants, childbirth educators, nurses.  

CENSORSHIP
I put out a call for support to come with me to set up my table, but unfortunately it was too late to get anything more than moral support.  Fortunately, the moral support that results from a women’s health movement from the last 40 years and the work that we have collectively done to fight for women’s rights to birth control and abortion strengthened me to walk into a environment hostile to women’s rights to birth control and abortion that WHWH stands for and achieve a amicable resolution with the conference organizers.  I removed from the table about one-half the items with “birth control” or “abortion” on them (including A New View of a Woman’s Body and the Del’em and pictures of the female condom) and in their place, I posted signs saying “CENSORED”.   The organizers told me that U.N. regulations prohibits La Leche League from mentioning birth control or abortion.  Other than this limitation, they were quite cordial and helpful.


SPECULUM GIVE-AWAY
Many women, especially those who appeared past childbearing years, turned down the offer of the speculum with “I don’t need that”.  Some said that they already had a speculum (usually midwives) or that they already used one.  A few women didn’t know what the speculum was.  The 20 women that took away speculums were delighted.  

GUESTBOOK & VISITOR RESPONSE
Only 9 women signed the guestbook.  It seems that people are trying to keep the number of incoming e-mails down (I know that I’ve become reluctant to be on someone’s e-mailing list).  One of them, Mary Strack, is a founder of La Leche League, and very kindly offered to keep in touch with me and share what she has learned about the international breastfeeding situation; she is LLL’s international representative.  Likewise, Betty Crase, who wrote The Motherly Art of Breastfeeding” also agreed with the key words on the display [FULL SPECTRUM = PRO-WOMAN AGENDA].


After giving the visitor a copy of my card with the website info, I summed up our message, “We believe it’s important for the women’s health movement to work together on all the interrelated issues concerning women’s sexuality and reproductive rights”.  Many expressed wholehearted agreement.

Our 3 leaflets, “What to expect When You Go To The Hospital fora Natural Childbirth” by Molly Remer, “Shodhini” announcement and Cedar RiverClinics’s “Fertility Awareness for Birth Control” (Yes, they did allow that one) were popular.  The Shodhini leaflet caught the interest of a substantial number of women.  I found it very interesting that of these women, many were Latina.  Although I don’t know all the social forces that are at play, in Southern California at least, there is a upsurge of interest in learning more about our bodies and networking with other women among Latinas.  I predict that Shodhini will be getting calls.

EXHIBITORS
In addition to booths with literature from organizations that promote breastfeeding, or offered products to facilitate breastfeeding, there were several homeschooling booths, health and beauty products, and toys.  I was especially interested in one booth, “The Daily Grind”, run by two sisters who are trapeze artistes who were with Le Cirque du Soleil.  They have devised stretches and exercises to be done during the daily routine. I’m going to try to get together a group to put our money together to bring them from Mar Vista to Eagle Rock to demonstrate these to us and to help us to learn how to do them properly.

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Monday, March 11, 2013

Women's History Month: Feminist Website, Women's Retreat, and ALOUD Audio

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Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Shodhini Institute, "Birthing Our Babies", and "The Feminine Mystique"



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Friday, January 18, 2013

40th Anniversary of Roe v. Wade

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January 22, 2013 marks the 40th anniversary of Roe v. Wade the U.S. Supreme Court decision which legalized abortion.  As it stands now, women seeking abortion care must walk through crowds of protestors; abortion providers fear for their safety; states are passing laws to make women seeking abortions go through waiting periods, obtain parental or judicial permission, or view photos of aborted fetuses; politicians vote against women's reproductive rights.

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"Roe v. Wade Anniversary, Birth Story Film, and Volunteer Midwife in Senegal"

Thursday, January 3, 2013

The Shodhini Institute: RADICAL DOULA GUIDE RELEASE PARTY

The Shodhini Institute: RADICAL DOULA GUIDE RELEASE PARTY: Shodhini Institute's First Benefit Event! We are honored to be welcoming Miriam Z. Perez aka Radical Doula to Los Angeles for their Radic...